Love Game (#explicit)

Content Advisory: This article contains reference to sexual content and adult themes.


Who says dressing up is just for Halloween?

Maybe you're like me and not super adventurous in the bedroom. Whips and chains and fire and so on maybe has you feeling like running for the door, even if they just are on the computer screen. Here's a little something a little more casual, but yet it will get your feet wet and perhaps start pushing the road to trying new things. You never know. Once something becomes comfortable, it may just open a road to wonderful experimentation with your partner.

The biggest thing, as so often mentioned on RLJ is trust with your partner. Trying new things and not being self-conscious is always going to be tough. But there's so much that can be missed out on without trying. You should also respect your partner {as they should you} to simply stop or skip something that you both aren't 100% comfortable with.

Sometimes I cheat. If I think I'm not quite brave enough, I have a few alcoholic drinks. Safely, of course, in the privacy of my own home. Don't do it to get drunk or even buzzed. It's just for show. It's an excuse to act a little differently than you normally would. As you get comfortable, you won't need anything to "hide behind."

On to more interesting things.

Do some extra Halloween shopping this year, not to mention, on the internet, you can pretty much get costumes all year long. Does your partner have a thing for a French maid costume? Maybe a nurse? What about Pocahontas? Would you love to see your partner's awesome body in a fireman outfit? As a construction worker? As a doctor? How about a little extra fun as a vampire? Master and slave? Your imagination is the only thing to keep this one from getting interesting.

Once you step into the costume, or your partner does, play the role. Are you the nurse? Act like one. Make him undress. Check him over. Then take control for what will likely be a great night of sex. Feeling vulnerable, in one way or anther, is a turn on for men and women most of the time.

If you've grown tired of dress up or aren't sure you're ready to try some role playing, there's always board games for adults. If you have a Spencers near by, they generally carry them. And, as with almost everything else, they're readily available on the internet.

Sex Position Dart (see blog image): Now, here's a fun one. You can even sharpen up your dart skills while having an enjoyable evening at home. Each position is drawn out on the dart board for you. Some will even take some practice and a little skill to pull off. Practice your dart throwing. There's nothing wrong with intentionally hitting your favorites.

Lovers Tower: This game is all about truth and dare. What? You thought that was just for kids? Just remember to never ask anything you don't really want to know. And if you do, be adult about the outcome. When you remove a block, you answer a question or complete a dare then place your block back on top without knocking it down. A really fun way to play Jenga.

Sexual Nirvana: In this fun game, you build a sexual nirvana fantasy that consists of 12 consecutively numbered cards. The deck includes 12 romance cards, 12 hot sex cards, 12 role play cards, 12 fetish cards and 4 wild card. There are literally hundred of outcomes available to you and your partner.

Position of the day playing cards: How about using these for a handy game of strip poker and following up by selecting a random card. Try out the position on the card you drew.

Let's Fool Around: A hot game of dice. One die contains the action. The other has that body part to do it to. Roll the dice and see what you get to do to your partner. Simple and fun.

Adult Pain Box: Transform your partner's body into your own work of art. In addition to getting to have a new canvas to work on, you get to stare at and touch your partner's body for as long as you feel you can be creative.

My recommendation? Stay in this weekend. Play a little dress up and play some new board games.

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