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Thursday, October 17, 2024

Day 17: Xenophobia – The Fear of the Stranger #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, fellow explorers of the unsettling. Today, we’re delving into a fear that’s not just about what’s lurking in the shadows but about the shadows themselves: xenophobia, the fear of the unknown or the stranger. While this term is often associated with fear or hatred of people from other countries or cultures, in its broader sense, xenophobia is about the deep-seated fear of anything that is unfamiliar, different, or beyond our understanding.

Xenophobia is a fear that’s rooted in our survival instincts. From our earliest days as a species, we’ve been wired to be cautious of anything unfamiliar—new environments, unknown animals, or even other human groups. This wariness served our ancestors well, helping them to avoid potential threats. But in the modern world, this fear can become distorted, leading to an irrational anxiety about anything—or anyone—that doesn’t fit within the narrow boundaries of what we know and understand.

Imagine this: you find yourself in a place you’ve never been before. The sights, sounds, and smells are all foreign to you. The people speak a language you don’t understand, their customs and behaviors are completely different from your own. You feel a sense of unease, your heart beating a little faster as you struggle to make sense of this new world. The unfamiliarity feels threatening, not because there’s any real danger, but because it challenges your sense of what’s normal, what’s safe. This is the essence of xenophobia—a fear of the other, the different, the unknown.

In horror, xenophobia can be a powerful theme, exploring the fear of the unknown in a variety of ways. It’s the haunted house that no one dares to enter because of the strange, inexplicable things that happen within its walls. It’s the isolated village that guards its secrets from outsiders, or the ancient artifact that brings with it curses and chaos. Xenophobia in horror taps into our fear of what we don’t understand, what we can’t control, and what might threaten our very existence.

I’ve touched on themes of the unknown in my writing, using them to create tension and unease. There’s something deeply unsettling about the idea that there are things out there—people, places, forces—that we know nothing about, that could disrupt the world as we know it. It’s a fear that resonates with us on a fundamental level, because it’s not just about what’s out there—it’s about what it means for us, for our safety, for our identity.

But xenophobia isn’t just about fear—it’s about the walls we build around ourselves, the boundaries we create to keep the unfamiliar at bay. It’s about the discomfort that comes with stepping outside our comfort zones, and the anxiety that arises when we’re faced with something—or someone—that doesn’t fit within our neatly ordered world. And that’s where the real horror lies—not in the unknown itself, but in our reaction to it, in the way fear can twist our perceptions and lead us down dark, dangerous paths.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt the twinge of xenophobia, that uneasy feeling when you’re confronted with something new, something different? Have you found yourself avoiding situations or people because they seem too unfamiliar, too strange? Or have you embraced the unknown, stepping into the unfamiliar with curiosity instead of fear? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about times when xenophobia has taken hold or moments when you’ve faced the unknown and found something new. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s explore this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be diving into a fear that’s a bit more tangible—but no less terrifying. Until then, stay open… and remember that sometimes, the unknown isn’t as frightening as it seems.




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Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Day 16: Ophidiophobia – The Fear That Slithers #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, my brave companions. Today, we’re venturing into the wild to confront a fear that has slithered its way into the hearts of many: ophidiophobia, the fear of snakes. Snakes have long been creatures of both fascination and terror, their sinuous movements and cold, unblinking eyes evoking a primal fear that dates back to our earliest ancestors. For those with ophidiophobia, the mere sight of a snake—whether in the wild, on television, or even in a photograph—can trigger an intense, visceral reaction.

Ophidiophobia isn’t just about a dislike of snakes or a preference to keep your distance; it’s a deep-seated fear that can cause physical symptoms like sweating, trembling, or even full-blown panic attacks. It’s the kind of fear that can make you jump at the sight of a stick on the ground, mistaking it for something far more sinister. It’s a fear that can turn a simple walk in the woods into a nerve-wracking ordeal, where every rustle in the leaves sends your heart racing.

Imagine this: you’re hiking through a dense forest, the sunlight filtering through the trees, casting dappled shadows on the ground. The air is thick with the scent of earth and leaves, and all around you, the forest hums with life. But then, you hear it—a soft, almost imperceptible rustle in the underbrush. You freeze, your heart pounding in your chest, your breath catching in your throat. Your mind races, conjuring images of a snake coiled and ready to strike. You can’t see it, but you can feel its presence, lurking just out of sight, waiting for the perfect moment to reveal itself. It’s a fear that grips you, holding you in place, unable to move forward or turn back.

In horror, snakes are often used as symbols of evil, deception, and danger. From ancient mythology to modern horror films, the image of a snake has been associated with treachery, death, and the unknown. Whether it’s the serpent in the Garden of Eden or the monstrous, man-eating snakes of the Amazon, these creatures have always represented something more than just a fear of being bitten—they symbolize the fear of what lies hidden, of what can strike without warning.

I’ve used the imagery of snakes in my own work, drawing on their association with danger and the unknown to create tension and fear. There’s something inherently unsettling about the way a snake moves, the way it can blend into its surroundings, becoming almost invisible until it’s too late. It’s a fear that taps into our most primal instincts, the fear of being hunted, of being caught off guard, of facing something that we can’t predict or control.

But ophidiophobia isn’t just about the fear of snakes themselves—it’s about the fear of the unknown, of what lies beneath the surface. It’s the fear that something dangerous is lurking just out of sight, waiting for the perfect moment to strike. And it’s a fear that can manifest in unexpected ways, turning even the most ordinary moments into scenes of tension and dread.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt the creeping fear of ophidiophobia, the anxiety that comes with the thought of encountering a snake? Does the sight of these slithering creatures send a shiver down your spine, or have you found a way to coexist with them? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about close encounters with snakes or just your thoughts on why these creatures evoke such powerful emotions. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s confront this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be exploring a fear that’s a bit more psychological—but no less terrifying. Until then, stay alert… and watch where you step.






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Tuesday, October 15, 2024

Day 15: Atychiphobia – The Fear That Holds Us Back #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, brave souls. Today, we’re delving into a fear that’s less about external dangers and more about the battles we fight within ourselves: atychiphobia, the fear of failure. This isn’t just the nervousness we feel before a big test or the butterflies in our stomachs before a crucial presentation. Atychiphobia is the paralyzing fear that any attempt to achieve, to grow, or to reach for something more will end in disaster, making it safer to never try at all.

Atychiphobia can manifest in many ways. For some, it’s the overwhelming anxiety that comes with the possibility of making a mistake. For others, it’s the fear of being judged or ridiculed if they don’t succeed. It’s a fear that can stop you in your tracks, keeping you from pursuing your dreams, taking risks, or even stepping outside your comfort zone. It’s not just about the fear of the outcome—it’s the fear of the process, the fear of not being good enough, of not being perfect.

Imagine this: you’re standing at the threshold of a new opportunity, something you’ve wanted for a long time. But as you prepare to take that first step, a voice in your head starts whispering all the reasons why you shouldn’t. What if you fail? What if you’re not as good as you think you are? What if everyone sees you fall flat on your face? The fear builds, layer by layer, until it feels like a wall you can’t climb over, a weight you can’t lift. And so, instead of moving forward, you retreat, choosing the safety of inaction over the risk of failure.

In horror, the fear of failure can be a powerful theme, driving characters to extreme lengths to avoid the consequences of their mistakes. It’s the scientist who pushes ethical boundaries in pursuit of success, the protagonist who makes a dark pact to ensure they don’t fall short, or the character who is haunted—literally or figuratively—by the failures of their past. Atychiphobia can turn ambition into obsession, dreams into nightmares, and hope into despair.

I’ve touched on the theme of atychiphobia in my writing, exploring how the fear of failure can twist the mind, leading characters down paths they never intended to take. It’s a fear that’s deeply human, one that we all face at some point in our lives. But in the world of horror, it becomes something more—a force that can drive people to madness, to cruelty, to the darkest corners of their souls.

But atychiphobia isn’t just about the fear of not succeeding—it’s about the fear of what failure says about us. It’s the fear that if we fail, it means we’re not worthy, not capable, not enough. It’s a fear that can keep us trapped in a cycle of self-doubt, preventing us from ever truly living the lives we want. And that’s where the real horror lies—not in the failure itself, but in the fear that stops us from even trying.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt the grip of atychiphobia, that fear of failure that makes it hard to move forward? Have you found yourself avoiding risks, not because you don’t want to take them, but because you’re afraid of what might happen if you do? Or have you faced this fear head-on, pushing through the doubt and coming out stronger on the other side? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about battles won or lost against this fear, or simply your thoughts on how it shapes our lives. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s confront this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be exploring a fear that’s more primal—but no less powerful. Until then, keep moving forward… and remember, sometimes the scariest thing we can do is try.






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Monday, October 14, 2024

Day 14: Pteromerhanophobia – The Fear That Grounds Us #phobia #phobiaseries

Monday, October 14, 2024 0 Comments


Welcome back, my fearless explorers of the dark and unknown. Today, we’re taking a journey into the skies—or rather, the fear of what lies above—pteromerhanophobia, the fear of flying. For many, the idea of soaring through the clouds is thrilling, an adventure that promises new horizons. But for those with pteromerhanophobia, flying is anything but exhilarating. It’s a source of intense anxiety, dread, and sometimes even sheer terror.

Pteromerhanophobia isn’t just a simple fear of heights or enclosed spaces; it’s the overwhelming fear of being in an airplane, thousands of feet above the ground, with no control over what happens next. It’s the realization that you’re putting your life in the hands of pilots, machinery, and forces far beyond your control. For some, the fear begins long before they even step foot on a plane—sleepless nights leading up to the flight, sweaty palms at the airport, and a heart that races with every announcement over the intercom.

Imagine this: you’re seated in an airplane, the engines roar to life, and you feel the plane begin to taxi down the runway. Your heart pounds in your chest, your breath comes in shallow gasps, and your hands grip the armrests so tightly your knuckles turn white. As the plane lifts off, your stomach drops, and your mind races with every worst-case scenario—what if something goes wrong? What if the plane doesn’t stay in the sky? What if this is the last time you’ll ever feel solid ground beneath your feet?

In horror, the fear of flying can be a powerful tool. It taps into our primal fears of falling, of being trapped, and of the unknown. Whether it’s a story of a doomed flight where passengers face unimaginable horrors, or a psychological thriller where the protagonist’s fear of flying becomes a manifestation of their deeper anxieties, pteromerhanophobia offers endless possibilities for creating tension and suspense.

While I haven’t yet explored pteromerhanophobia in my writing, the fear of being out of control—of being at the mercy of forces you can’t see or understand—is a theme that resonates deeply in horror. There’s something uniquely terrifying about being trapped in a metal tube hurtling through the sky, with nothing but thin air between you and the ground far below. It’s a fear that strips away our sense of safety, reminding us just how fragile we really are.

But pteromerhanophobia isn’t just about the fear of flying itself—it’s about the fear of the unknown, the what-ifs that creep into our minds when we’re faced with situations beyond our control. It’s the fear of not being able to escape, of being vulnerable in a way that few other experiences can match. And it’s a fear that can turn something as ordinary as air travel into a journey of anxiety and dread.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt that gut-wrenching fear of flying? Does the thought of being thousands of feet in the air make your heart race and your stomach churn? Or have you managed to conquer this fear, finding peace among the clouds? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about a flight that went smoothly or one that left you grounded for good. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s explore this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be diving into a fear that’s a bit more rooted in our everyday experiences—but no less terrifying. Until then, keep your seatbelt fastened… and maybe stay grounded, just for today.




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Sunday, October 13, 2024

Day 13: Automatonophobia – When the Familiar Becomes Uncanny #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, fellow seekers of the strange and unsettling. Today, we’re stepping into the uncanny valley with a fear that blurs the line between the human and the inhuman: automatonophobia, the fear of human-like figures. This includes everything from mannequins and wax figures to animatronics and, for some, even lifelike dolls. It’s a fear that taps into something deeply primal—the unease that comes from encountering something that looks almost human… but not quite.

Automatonophobia is more than just a dislike of creepy dolls or an aversion to lifelike statues. It’s the feeling that something is off, that the figure in front of you is mimicking humanity without actually being human. It’s the way a mannequin’s gaze seems to follow you as you move through a store, or how a wax figure looks as if it could spring to life at any moment. It’s the unsettling sensation that what you’re looking at is pretending to be something it’s not, and that pretense is where the fear lies.

Imagine walking into a room filled with lifelike figures. At first glance, they’re just statues—still, silent, harmless. But as you move closer, the details become more unsettling. The eyes, too lifelike for comfort, seem to stare right through you. The hands, frozen in mid-gesture, appear ready to move. The skin, though waxy and artificial, has a texture that makes you question whether it’s really just a figure. Your heart begins to race, your instincts screaming that something isn’t right. And yet, you’re drawn closer, unable to look away from the almost-human faces that seem to watch your every move.

In horror, automatonophobia is a goldmine. The fear of human-like figures plays on our deepest anxieties about identity, reality, and the boundaries of life itself. Think of the stories where mannequins come to life, or where animatronics malfunction in the most disturbing ways. There’s a reason why these figures feature so prominently in horror—they represent a distortion of the familiar, a twisting of what we know to be safe and comforting into something terrifying and alien.

While I haven’t yet focused on automatonophobia in my work, the potential for horror is immense. Imagine a story set in a museum of wax figures, where the line between the living and the inanimate begins to blur. Or perhaps a tale of a doll that’s just a little too lifelike, its glassy eyes holding secrets that should never be uncovered. The possibilities are endless, and the fear is all too real.

But automatonophobia isn’t just about the figures themselves—it’s about what they represent. It’s the fear of the uncanny, of things that are almost human but not quite. It’s the discomfort that comes from encountering something that challenges our understanding of what it means to be alive, to be human. And it’s a fear that can strike at the most unexpected moments, turning a simple shopping trip or a visit to a museum into an experience fraught with anxiety.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt that creeping unease when faced with a mannequin, a wax figure, or even a lifelike doll? Does the sight of these almost-human figures send a shiver down your spine? Or have you had an experience where one of these figures seemed just a little too real for comfort? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about a close encounter with the uncanny or just your thoughts on what makes these figures so unsettling. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s delve into this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be exploring another fear that’s a bit more grounded in reality—but no less chilling. Until then, stay aware of your surroundings… and maybe avoid any overly lifelike figures, just in case.




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Saturday, October 12, 2024

Day 12: Emetophobia – The Fear That Turns Stomach-Churning #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, my fearless companions. Today, we’re delving into a fear that’s often hidden but deeply impactful: emetophobia, the fear of vomiting. Now, this might seem like a peculiar phobia to some, but for those who experience it, the fear of vomiting—or even being around someone who might vomit—can be overwhelming and all-consuming.

Emetophobia isn’t just about the physical act of vomiting; it’s about the intense anxiety that comes with the possibility of it happening. For many, it’s the loss of control, the fear of public embarrassment, or the dread of feeling trapped in a situation where they might be exposed to this deeply unsettling experience. It’s a fear that can shape decisions, alter behavior, and create a constant undercurrent of anxiety in daily life.

Imagine living with a fear that influences everything you do. You might avoid certain foods, refuse to travel, or steer clear of social gatherings for fear that something might trigger an episode. You might obsessively monitor your health, trying to control every aspect of your environment to prevent the one thing that terrifies you most. It’s a fear that’s as much about the anticipation as it is about the act itself—a fear that grows with every anxious thought, feeding on the unknown.

In the world of horror, emetophobia might not be the first fear that comes to mind, but it has a unique power. Vomiting is often used in horror as a symbol of corruption, possession, or something deeply wrong. It’s an involuntary act, one that represents the body rebelling against itself, losing control in a way that can be deeply unsettling. Whether it’s a subtle, creeping sickness or a violent, sudden eruption, the imagery of vomiting can be used to evoke disgust, fear, and a sense of foreboding.

While I haven’t directly tackled emetophobia in my work, the theme of losing control—especially over one’s own body—is a recurring one. There’s something deeply terrifying about the idea that your own body could betray you, that you could be helpless in the face of something so primal, so instinctual. It’s a fear that can make even the most mundane moments feel fraught with danger.

But emetophobia isn’t just about the act of vomiting—it’s about the fear of what it represents. It’s the fear of vulnerability, of being exposed, of losing the ability to control what happens to your body. It’s a fear that can isolate, making you feel alone in your struggle, even when surrounded by others. And that’s where the real horror lies—not in the act itself, but in the way it can take over your life, turning every meal, every interaction, every day into a potential threat.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt the grip of emetophobia? Does the thought of vomiting—or even being around someone who might—send you into a spiral of anxiety? Or have you known someone who struggles with this fear, watching as it shapes their life in ways that might seem small but are actually profound? I’d love to hear your stories—whether it’s about your own experiences with this phobia or your thoughts on how it affects those around you. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s explore this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be diving into a fear that’s both ancient and deeply ingrained in our collective consciousness. Until then, stay strong… and maybe stick to foods that agree with you, just in case.





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Friday, October 11, 2024

Day 11: Mysophobia – The Fear That Hides in Plain Sight #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, my fearless friends. Today, we’re venturing into a fear that’s all around us, one that’s become more prevalent in our modern world: mysophobia, the fear of germs. This isn’t just about a mild discomfort with dirt or a preference for cleanliness—mysophobia can be an all-consuming fear that turns everyday life into a minefield of potential contamination.

Germs are invisible, lurking on every surface, in the air we breathe, and on the hands we shake. For those with mysophobia, this knowledge isn’t just a background hum—it’s a constant, relentless anxiety. The thought of touching a doorknob, sitting on a public bench, or even breathing in the same air as others can trigger a cascade of fear and compulsion. It’s not just about avoiding illness; it’s about the overwhelming need to stay clean, to avoid the invisible threats that surround us.

Imagine living in a world where every touch, every breath, every interaction feels like a potential danger. Your mind races with thoughts of contamination, of microscopic invaders waiting to breach your defenses. You wash your hands until they’re raw, you avoid public places, and you may even struggle to interact with others for fear of what they might carry. It’s a fear that can isolate, overwhelm, and consume.

In horror, mysophobia can be a powerful theme, tapping into our collective anxiety about the unseen dangers that lurk in our everyday lives. Whether it’s a pandemic sweeping through a community or a character driven to madness by their fear of contamination, the fear of germs can serve as a metaphor for the invisible threats that we all face. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the most terrifying things aren’t the monsters we can see, but the ones we can’t.

I’ve touched on themes of isolation and contamination in my writing, exploring how fear can drive us to extremes, pushing us to protect ourselves at all costs. Mysophobia offers a unique lens through which to view horror—a fear that’s both incredibly personal and universally relatable. It’s a fear that taps into our most basic instincts, the need to protect ourselves from harm, even when that harm is invisible.

But mysophobia isn’t just about the fear of getting sick—it’s about control. It’s about the desperate need to create a safe, clean environment in a world that feels chaotic and dangerous. It’s a fear that can spiral, leading to obsessive behaviors and a life that feels increasingly small and restricted. And that’s where the true horror lies—not in the germs themselves, but in what the fear of them can do to a person’s mind.

So, how about you? Have you ever felt the creeping anxiety that comes with mysophobia? Do you find yourself avoiding certain places or obsessively cleaning to keep the germs at bay? Or have you watched someone you know struggle with this fear? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about your own battles with mysophobia or just your thoughts on how this fear has shaped our modern world. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s dig into this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that haunt our lives, tomorrow we’ll be exploring another fear that’s more primal—but no less terrifying. Until then, stay safe, stay clean… and maybe keep that hand sanitizer close at hand.




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Thursday, October 10, 2024

Day 10: Hemophobia – The Fear Written in Blood #phobia #phobiaseries

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Welcome back, fearless wanderers. Today, we’re diving into one of the most primal fears known to humanity: hemophobia, the fear of blood. Now, blood is the essence of life, flowing through our veins, keeping us alive. But for those with hemophobia, the sight, smell, or even the thought of blood can trigger a reaction so intense that it sends them reeling into a state of panic or fainting.

Blood has always been a potent symbol in both life and horror. It represents life, death, and everything in between. For centuries, blood has been associated with rituals, sacrifice, and the supernatural. It’s no wonder that the sight of blood can evoke such strong emotions. But for those with hemophobia, it’s not just an uneasy feeling—it’s an overwhelming, visceral fear that can leave them paralyzed.

Imagine this: you’re in a situation where you see blood—whether it’s a small cut on your finger, a nosebleed, or something more severe. Suddenly, your body reacts before your mind has a chance to catch up. Your heart starts to race, your vision blurs, and you feel a wave of nausea that threatens to take you down. The world tilts, and all you can focus on is the red that seems to stain everything around you. For someone with hemophobia, this isn’t just a discomfort—it’s a full-blown fight-or-flight response.

In horror, blood is a powerful tool. It’s used to signal danger, death, and the macabre. Think of the iconic scenes in horror movies where blood is front and center, whether it’s a slow drip from the ceiling or a sudden, violent burst that paints the walls. Blood is a reminder that we’re all vulnerable, that life is fragile, and that death is never far away. It’s a fear that’s been explored in countless stories, from the terrifying to the tragic, and it’s a fear that taps into something deep and universal.

I’ve used blood as a symbol in my own work, not just for shock value, but to explore the fears that lie beneath the surface. Blood can be both beautiful and terrifying, a sign of life and a harbinger of death. It’s a reminder of our own mortality, of the thin line that separates the living from the dead. In the hands of a horror writer, blood becomes a canvas on which to paint the darkest aspects of the human experience.

But hemophobia isn’t just about the fear of blood itself—it’s about the fear of injury, illness, and the loss of control. It’s the fear of seeing your own blood or the blood of someone you care about, knowing that something is wrong, something is broken. It’s a fear that’s tied to our most basic instincts, to the knowledge that blood is life, and the loss of it can mean the end.

So, what about you? How do you react to the sight of blood? Does it make you queasy, or does it send you into a full-blown panic? Have you ever had an experience where blood played a central role, one that left a lasting impact on you? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about a close call with hemophobia or a time when you faced this fear head-on. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s explore this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be delving into another fear that’s a bit more insidious—but no less real. Until then, keep calm… and maybe avoid any sharp objects, just for today.



Wednesday, October 9, 2024

Stephanie R. Caffrey - London Detective Agency #AuthorInterview

Wednesday, October 09, 2024 0 Comments

Just as your books inspire authors, what authors have inspired you to write?

JR Ward, Emily Henry, John Green

How important are names to you in your books? Do you choose the names based on liking the way it sounds or the meaning? Do you have any name choosing resources you recommend?

They’re not super important. I choose names based on how they sound, and then I use a name randomizer on the internet for last names based on their ethnicity.

What do you consider to be your best accomplishment?

My children

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

I would love to be able to write full-time, with several books out in the world.

What do you think most characterizes your writing?

I think the humor I infuse really characterizes my writing. I write suspense, but my characters tend to be really funny. I grew up in a house with humor infused in everything, and my husband and I tend to use humor a lot, and I found that I really wanted my books to reflect that. Which is why even if my main characters aren’t always funny, there is a side character who is that person. You have to have some sort of levity when things start to get serious.

What was the hardest part of writing this book?

Finding time. I’m a mom to two children, so finding time to sit down and write has become a precious commodity. Before kids, I could write whenever, but with a ten and four year old, finding time to sit down uninterrupted to write is very rare.  

Are there underrepresented groups or ideas featured if your book?  If so, discuss them.

Tessa in Be My Little Baby is Latina. I am Mexican-American, my grandmother immigrated to the United States in the 1950s and I have a lot of family still living in Mexico. It has become important to me to see more heroines in books who look like me. Where they are proud of their Latin heritage, even if they don’t look Latina, or speak the language, or that is only part of their heritage. I always get surprised looks when I tell people I’m Mexican-American, and so writing my experience into books has been important to me and Tessa is my first, but by no means my last, character like this.

Are there misconceptions that people have about your book?  If so, explain.

I haven’t heard anyone having any misconceptions about the book.

What social networks and websites do you participate on?

www.srcaffrey.com – My author website and book blog

www.facebook.com/stephcaffreyauthor

www.instagram.com/stephcaffreyauthor

www.twitter.com/beatlechickstep

 

This or That

~ Tea or coffee?

Tea

~ iOS or Android?

Android

~ Tattoos or Piercings?

Tattoos

~ Google or Bing?

Google

~ Minecraft or Roblox?

Minecraft

~ Harry Potter or The Lord of the Rings?

Lord of the Rings

~ eBay or Amazon?

Amazon

~ PayPal or bank account?

Bank Account

~ Grammys or Oscars?

Oscars

~ Star Wars or Star Trek?

Star Wars

~ Harry Potter or Hobbit?

Harry Potter

~ Bond or Bourne?

Bond

Book Blurb:

MISTAKEN IDENTITY:
Graduate student Evelyn Stevenson is on her way to study abroad, and it’s her first time away from home. Excited for the adventure of a lifetime, she wasn’t planning on running, literally, into someone on her London layover who would change the course of her life.
Now on the radar of a notorious crime boss, she must rely on handsome and burly private investigator, Patrick Miller, to protect her. But he seems like he’s on a mission for revenge. Will his hard heart melt enough to let her in? If they can survive long enough to try.
Tropes: sworn off love, damsel in distress, protector, private investigator, geek, international

BE MY LITTLE BABY:
When Tessa Lopez opened her bakery, she expected to barely break even. Instead, she’s become one of the most popular shops in London. Life would be perfect, except someone is stalking her, sending threatening letters and photographs.
When the police can’t help, she goes to the famous and too-sexy private detective, James Moore. As they work to uncover her stalker, Tessa and James fight an undeniable attraction. But he doesn’t date clients, or so he keeps repeating.
Will they be able to resist their attraction and survive the person hellbent on making her his, at any cost. Or will their chemistry bring about their end?
Tropes: damsel in distress, protector, private investigator, forbidden love, beta, international

Book Buy link:

https://books2read.com/u/3GoZWp


Author Bio:

Stephanie R. Caffrey is a debut romantic suspense author who lives with her family in the Midwest. When she’s not working on her original writing, she loves to write fanfiction. She is a proud marginalized voice in the Mexican-American community. Besides writing, she enjoys sewing, knitting, and cross stitching.




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Day 9: Glossophobia – The Fear That Silences Us #phobia #phobiaseries

Wednesday, October 09, 2024 0 Comments

Welcome back, brave souls. Today, we’re stepping away from the physical fears and diving into something a bit more psychological: glossophobia, the fear of public speaking. Now, I know what you’re thinking—public speaking doesn’t seem as terrifying as, say, being trapped in the dark or standing on the edge of a cliff. But for those who suffer from glossophobia, the mere thought of speaking in front of others can be just as paralyzing.

Glossophobia is one of the most common fears out there. In fact, it’s often ranked higher than the fear of death, which tells you just how deeply this fear runs. It’s not just about stage fright; it’s about the overwhelming anxiety that comes with the idea of being judged, of having all eyes on you, and of possibly saying or doing the wrong thing. For some, this fear is so intense that they’d rather do almost anything than stand in front of an audience—even if that audience is just a handful of people.

Imagine this: you’re standing in front of a room full of people. The spotlight is on you, and suddenly, your mind goes blank. Your mouth goes dry, your palms start to sweat, and your heart feels like it’s about to leap out of your chest. You’re frozen, unable to speak, unable to move, trapped in the gaze of those around you. It’s not just the fear of public speaking—it’s the fear of being exposed, of being vulnerable, of failing in front of others.

In horror, glossophobia might not seem like an obvious choice for building tension, but it has a unique power. The fear of public speaking can be used to explore themes of isolation, vulnerability, and the terror of being scrutinized by others. It’s a fear that can strip a character down to their most basic insecurities, revealing the cracks in their facade and forcing them to confront their deepest anxieties.

I haven’t yet delved deeply into glossophobia in my own writing, but the potential is there. Imagine a story where a character’s fear of public speaking becomes the focal point of their nightmare, where every misstep, every stumble, every awkward pause is magnified a hundredfold. The fear of judgment, of being seen and heard in the worst possible light, could be the perfect breeding ground for psychological horror.

But glossophobia isn’t just about public speaking—it’s about the fear of exposure, of being seen for who we truly are, flaws and all. It’s the fear of being vulnerable, of letting down our guard and allowing others to see our weaknesses. And that’s a fear that can resonate with anyone, whether you’re speaking to a crowd, having a difficult conversation with a loved one, or simply being asked to share your thoughts in a meeting.

So, how about you? Have you ever felt that bone-deep terror of speaking in front of others? Does the thought of public speaking make your heart race and your stomach churn? Or have you faced this fear head-on and come out the other side stronger for it? I’d love to hear your stories—whether it’s a triumphant victory over glossophobia or a time when the fear got the best of you. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s explore this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be diving into a fear that’s a bit more visceral—but no less impactful. Until then, find your voice… and don’t be afraid to use it.





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Tuesday, October 8, 2024

Day 8: Acrophobia – The Vertigo of Fear #phobia #phobiaseries

Tuesday, October 08, 2024 0 Comments


Welcome back, my fellow adventurers of the unknown. Today, we’re scaling new heights—literally and figuratively—as we explore acrophobia, the fear of heights. This one’s a classic, a fear that many of us have encountered at some point in our lives. Whether it’s standing on the edge of a cliff, looking down from a tall building, or even just climbing a ladder, acrophobia can strike without warning, leaving you dizzy, disoriented, and utterly terrified.

Acrophobia isn’t just about the fear of falling—it’s about the overwhelming sense of vertigo that comes with being high above the ground. It’s that moment when you look down, and suddenly the world tilts, your stomach drops, and your legs feel like they might give way beneath you. It’s a fear that’s rooted deep in our survival instincts, a primal response to the dangers of being too high up without anything solid to hold onto.

But acrophobia is more than just a physical reaction—it’s a psychological battle as well. The higher you go, the more your mind starts to play tricks on you. The ground seems further away, the wind feels stronger, and the fear of losing control becomes all-consuming. It’s not just the height that’s terrifying; it’s the fear of what might happen if you slip, if you lose your balance, if you make one wrong move. The higher you go, the more you realize just how small and fragile you really are.

In horror, heights have been used to great effect to create tension and fear. Think of all the scenes where characters find themselves perched on the edge of a rooftop, dangling from a precarious ledge, or trying to navigate a narrow, crumbling bridge. The fear of heights adds an extra layer of suspense, turning even the simplest of actions into a life-or-death struggle. It’s a fear that can paralyze, leaving characters—and readers—on the edge, both literally and figuratively.

I’ve flirted with acrophobia in some of my writing, using it to heighten the stakes and push characters to their limits. There’s something thrilling about putting a character in a situation where they have to confront their deepest fears, where every step they take could be their last. It’s a fear that resonates because it’s so universal—almost everyone has felt that rush of fear at some point, that moment of doubt when you’re high above the ground and you realize just how far you could fall.

But acrophobia isn’t just about heights—it’s about the fear of losing control, of being in a situation where you’re vulnerable and exposed. It’s the fear of not being able to trust your own body, of feeling like the ground could give way beneath you at any moment. And that’s a fear that can strike anywhere, whether you’re climbing a mountain, standing on a balcony, or just walking across a high bridge.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt that dizzying sense of vertigo when you’ve been high above the ground? Does the thought of heights make your palms sweat and your heart race? I’d love to hear your stories—whether it’s a close call on a cliffside hike or just the everyday anxiety that heights can bring. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s confront this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our lives, tomorrow we’ll be exploring another fear that’s a bit more grounded—but no less terrifying. Until then, keep your feet on solid ground… and maybe avoid those high places, just for today.




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Monday, October 7, 2024

Day 7: Thalassophobia – The Depths That Haunt Us

Monday, October 07, 2024 0 Comments


Welcome back, intrepid explorers of the eerie. Today, we’re venturing into the vast and terrifying unknown of thalassophobia—the fear of the ocean, or more specifically, the fear of deep, open water. Now, this isn’t just about a casual dislike of swimming or a distaste for beach vacations; thalassophobia taps into something much deeper, something ancient and primal that lurks within all of us.

The ocean is a place of mystery and wonder, but it’s also a place of unimaginable depth, where the light fades and the darkness reigns. For those with thalassophobia, the thought of being out in the open water, with nothing but the abyss below, is enough to send shivers down the spine. It’s not just the water itself that’s frightening—it’s what could be hiding beneath the surface. The ocean is vast, and it’s home to creatures we can barely comprehend, many of which have never been seen by human eyes. That fear of the unknown, the unseen, is at the heart of thalassophobia.

Imagine being stranded in the middle of the ocean, no land in sight, with nothing but the deep blue below you. Your mind begins to race, imagining what might be lurking just out of sight—giant squids, monstrous sharks, or ancient leviathans that have been lying in wait for centuries. The ocean becomes a living entity, something that could swallow you whole, without a trace. It’s a fear of being completely exposed, vulnerable, and at the mercy of forces beyond your control.

In horror, the ocean is often used as a setting for tales of terror and suspense. From ghost ships to sea monsters, the sea has always been a place where our fears are magnified, where the line between reality and the unknown blurs. There’s a reason why so many horror stories take place on or near the water—the ocean is the perfect backdrop for the unknown, the uncontrollable, and the terrifying. It’s a place where nature’s power is on full display, and where human beings are reminded of just how small and insignificant we can be.

I’ve delved into the theme of the unknown depths in some of my work, but the ocean itself remains a vast and largely unexplored territory for me as a writer. The possibilities are endless—imagine a story where a group of people are stranded on a desolate island, surrounded by miles of open water, with something sinister lurking beneath the waves. The tension would be palpable, the fear almost tangible as they realize that the ocean isn’t just a barrier—it’s a threat.

But thalassophobia isn’t just about fear of the ocean itself; it’s about the fear of what we can’t see, what we can’t understand. It’s the fear of stepping into the unknown and realizing that you’re completely out of your depth, both literally and figuratively. And that’s a fear that can resonate with anyone, whether you’re standing on the edge of a pier, staring out at the endless horizon, or simply looking at pictures of the deep sea.

So, how about you? Does the thought of the open ocean make your heart race? Have you ever felt that sense of dread when you’re out at sea, or even just thinking about what might be lurking in the depths? I’d love to hear your stories—whether they’re about a close call on the water or just the unease that the ocean inspires in you. Share your experiences in the comments, and let’s dive deep into this fear together.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our fears, tomorrow brings a new terror to the surface. But for now, maybe take a moment to appreciate the solid ground beneath your feet… before the tide comes in.




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Sunday, October 6, 2024

Day 6: Trypophobia – The Fear of Holes That Runs Deep #phobia #phobiaseries

Sunday, October 06, 2024 0 Comments



Welcome back, my fellow wanderers of the weird and unsettling. Today, we’re diving into a phobia that’s a bit more obscure but no less terrifying: trypophobia, the fear of holes. Now, if this one’s new to you, you might be thinking, “Holes? Really?” But trust me, for those who experience it, trypophobia is no joke.

Trypophobia is characterized by an intense, often visceral reaction to clusters of small holes or bumps. Think of a honeycomb, a lotus seed pod, or even the porous surface of a coral reef. For some, just the sight of these things can trigger a feeling of deep unease, disgust, or even outright panic. It’s not the holes themselves that are frightening—it’s the patterns they form, the way they seem to stretch out into infinity, or the way they seem to be hiding something beneath the surface.

The fear of holes might seem strange on the surface, but when you dig a little deeper (pun intended), it starts to make sense. Holes can be seen as voids, as places where something is missing or where something unknown might be lurking. They’re gaps in what should be solid, and that can be profoundly unsettling. Our brains are wired to detect patterns and to find order in chaos, so when we see something that disrupts that order—like a cluster of holes—it can set off alarm bells.

In horror, the concept of holes or voids can be used to great effect. They represent the unknown, the unseen, and the unseeable. They’re a reminder that there are things in this world—things just beneath the surface—that we can’t fully comprehend. And that’s where the real fear comes in. It’s not just about the physical discomfort of seeing holes; it’s about what those holes might be hiding.

I haven’t yet explored trypophobia in my work, but I can already see the potential for a story that taps into this fear. Imagine a character who begins to notice these patterns everywhere—on the skin of strangers, in the walls of their home, in the very fabric of reality itself. The holes start small, almost imperceptible, but as the character’s fear grows, so do the holes, until they’re all-consuming. It’s the kind of story that could crawl under your skin and stay there long after you’ve put the book down.

But trypophobia isn’t just about the holes themselves; it’s about the response they elicit. It’s about the way our minds react to something that feels so profoundly wrong, so deeply unsettling, that we can’t look away even as we’re repulsed. It’s a fear that’s both physical and psychological, and that’s what makes it so powerful.

So, what about you? Have you ever felt that creeping sense of unease when you’ve seen a pattern of holes or bumps? Does the idea of clusters of holes make your skin crawl, or is this a fear that’s completely foreign to you? I’d love to hear your thoughts—especially if you’ve ever encountered this fear in your own life. Share your stories in the comments, and let’s keep this conversation going.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that haunt our world, tomorrow we’ll be exploring another fear that digs deep into our psyche. But for now, maybe take a moment to appreciate the solid, unbroken surfaces around you… before something starts to disrupt them.




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Saturday, October 5, 2024

Day 5: Coulrophobia – The Terrifying World of Clowns #phobia #phobiaseries

Saturday, October 05, 2024 0 Comments


Welcome back, my daring companions. If you’ve stuck with me this far, you’re in for a real treat—or perhaps, a trick. Today, we’re tackling a phobia that might seem a little more peculiar at first glance, but trust me, it’s just as terrifying as the others. Let’s talk about coulrophobia—the fear of clowns.

Now, clowns are supposed to be the bringers of joy, right? They’re the goofy entertainers with painted faces, oversized shoes, and a knack for making us laugh. But for many, clowns are anything but funny. In fact, they’re downright terrifying. And honestly, it’s not hard to see why.

There’s something inherently unsettling about a clown’s appearance—the exaggerated features, the permanent smile painted on their faces, the garish colors. It’s like they’re wearing a mask that hides something darker beneath. And let’s be real, who wouldn’t be a little creeped out by someone whose expression never changes, even when they’re doing something sinister? It’s no wonder that clowns have become a staple in horror, transforming from silly entertainers into symbols of pure, unbridled fear.

Coulrophobia often starts in childhood. Maybe it was a terrifying encounter at a birthday party, or maybe it was that one clown at the circus who got a little too close for comfort. But for many, the fear lingers long into adulthood. It’s not just the sight of a clown that triggers it—it’s the sense of unease that comes with not knowing what’s behind that painted-on grin.

In horror, clowns have been used to great effect to tap into this fear. From Stephen King’s It and its infamous Pennywise, to the twisted creations in movies like Killer Klowns from Outer Space, clowns have been reimagined as the stuff of nightmares. They’ve gone from harmless jesters to malevolent figures who delight in causing fear and chaos. And let’s not forget the real-world examples of “killer clowns” that have occasionally popped up, adding fuel to the fire of this phobia.

I’ve played with the concept of clowns in my writing as well, exploring how something so seemingly innocent can become the face of terror. There’s a reason why clowns are often depicted lurking in the shadows or appearing when you least expect them. They’re the perfect embodiment of the fear that something sinister might be hiding just behind the mask.

But what makes coulrophobia so fascinating is that it’s not just about the fear of clowns themselves. It’s about the fear of deception, of being fooled, of something that’s supposed to be safe turning out to be dangerous. It’s the idea that the things we trust can betray us, that the friendly face we see might be hiding something far more sinister underneath.

So, how do you feel about clowns? Do they make you laugh, or do they send a shiver down your spine? Have you ever had a close encounter with a clown that left you questioning whether you’d ever go to a circus again? Share your stories in the comments—I’d love to hear about your run-ins with these painted nightmares.

As we continue our exploration of phobias, remember that fear can take many forms, and it doesn’t always wear a mask. Tomorrow, we’ll delve into another fear that’s a little more subtle, but no less powerful. Until then, keep your eyes peeled… you never know when a clown might be lurking just around the corner.





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Friday, October 4, 2024

NOW LIVE #AvailableNow #NewRelease #MilitaryRomance Deadly Temptation: #TheGame Book 1

Friday, October 04, 2024 0 Comments


  1. Secrets, power, betrayal... The Game series is a high-stakes ride from start to finish! Don't miss the action 🎯 #TheGameSeries #BookTok #SpyThriller #MilitaryAction #BookAddict


Grab your copy HERE (free on Kindle Unlimited)

About the book:

What happens when a trauma doctor becomes a special ops mission? Will she help? Fall in love? Or lose everything to escape? Emily is a trauma doctor, and a good one - although she has no social life. When she meets Eric, an on leave military guy, she loves that he understands her schedule. As their relationship grows, things get strange. Is it too good to be true? Are there other motives?


About the Series:

The Game series is a gripping blend of suspense, action, and emotional intensity, following the intertwined lives of elite military operatives and the trauma doctor who becomes their anchor in both battle and life. Set against the backdrop of covert military operations, deep personal conflicts, and the unyielding pursuit of survival, this series explores the price of power, loyalty, and the darkness that comes with living in the shadows.

At the heart of the story is Emily, a trauma doctor whose skills catch the eye of an elite military team that operates in the shadows of the government. Pulled into their world of covert missions and unseen battles, she must navigate the complex dynamics of men who live for the fight and the toll that life takes on their souls. Throughout the series, Emily grapples with her own moral dilemmas, personal attachments, and the inescapable power dynamics that come from being surrounded by warriors who live on the edge of life and death.

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Step into a world where shadows reign and survival is never guaranteed. In The Game, trauma doctor Emily is thrust into the dangerous lives of elite military operatives who live by their own rules. As she navigates their deadly missions and hidden battles, Emily must confront her own demons, all while learning the price of power, loyalty, and love in a world where one wrong move could mean the end. With pulse-pounding action and heart-wrenching emotion, The Game is a series about the cost of living in the shadows and the bonds that are forged in blood.

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Day 4: Nyctophobia – When the Darkness Comes Alive #phobia #phobiaseries

Friday, October 04, 2024 0 Comments

Welcome back, my fearless companions. Today, we’re stepping into the abyss, a place where the shadows stretch long and the night holds secrets it refuses to share. That’s right—we’re diving into nyctophobia, the fear of the dark. Now, I know what you’re thinking: isn’t fear of the dark something we’re supposed to outgrow? But the truth is, nyctophobia isn’t just for kids. For many, the darkness still holds a power that sends chills down the spine and leaves the heart pounding in the dead of night.

There’s something about the dark that’s inherently unsettling. During the day, we can see the world around us clearly, and we take comfort in that clarity. But when the sun sets and the light fades, everything changes. The familiar becomes foreign, and the known becomes unknown. In the dark, our senses are heightened, and our imagination starts to fill in the gaps. Suddenly, that pile of clothes in the corner morphs into something sinister, and every creak of the floorboards is a sign that we’re not alone.

But nyctophobia goes deeper than just a fear of what we can’t see. It’s a fear rooted in the primal part of our brains, the part that remembers a time when the dark meant danger—predators, enemies, and things that lurked just out of sight. Even today, in our modern, well-lit world, the darkness has a way of stripping away our sense of security. It leaves us vulnerable, exposed, and questioning what’s real and what’s just a figment of our imagination.

In horror, the dark is a constant companion. It’s the setting for so many of the most terrifying scenes—the ones that make you grip the edges of your seat, straining to see what’s lurking just beyond the edge of the screen or the page. It’s in those moments when the lights flicker out, when the power goes down, and when the characters—and we—are plunged into a world where anything can happen. The darkness becomes a character itself, a silent antagonist that heightens every fear, every breath, every heartbeat.

I’ve played with the dark in my own stories, using it as a backdrop to the terror that unfolds. Whether it’s a shadowy alleyway, a pitch-black forest, or a house where the lights never seem to work quite right, the dark is where fear thrives. It’s where our minds start to betray us, turning every shadow into a potential threat and every sound into something much worse.

But here’s the thing about nyctophobia—it’s not just about the absence of light. It’s about what the dark represents. It’s the fear of the unknown, of what could be hiding just out of sight, waiting for the perfect moment to strike. It’s the fear that in the dark, we are truly alone, with nothing but our fears to keep us company.

So, how about you? Do you still feel that twinge of fear when you turn off the lights, or when you find yourself walking down a dark street late at night? Have you ever had an experience where the dark seemed to come alive, filling your mind with thoughts that wouldn’t have crossed it in the daylight? If so, I’d love to hear your stories. After all, fear shared is fear halved… or so they say.

As we continue our journey through the phobias that shape our fears, keep your eyes peeled for tomorrow’s post. We’ll be exploring another fear that’s as old as time itself. But for now, maybe leave a light on tonight… just in case.





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Thursday, October 3, 2024

September 2024 #NewReleases (Recap & Bonus Releases) #books #readingcommunity #amwriting

Thursday, October 03, 2024 0 Comments

Have you checked out my Sept 2024 Releases? The Beach Body: amazon.com/dp/B0D7FSV5JN Why is She Dead?: amazon.com/dp/B0DGDXCP2S A Cowboy's Claim: amazon.com/dp/B0DGDWT7G8 The Curse of Morgana: amazon.com/dp/B0DGFKK275 pic.x.com/AV0g9ZVmKd

The Beach Body and Why is she Dead are books 1 and 2 in the same series :)

Bonus releases for Sept (because the goal was to release 4, but I accidently hit publish):
Crime & Retribution Trilogy Book 1 Code of Deceit: amazon.com/dp/B0DGZP45DX Book 2 The Fall of Conscience: amazon.com/dp/B0DGZP2X77 A "sort of" retelling of Crime & Punishment #fyodordostoyevsky

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